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Why Am I Sick?
by Bradley Nelson, MD
Why Am I Sick? Beating chronic fatigue and other "incurable" ailments naturally

In the United States, we spend the highest amount of money per capita on healthcare of any country. What it's buying us is not good health, but instead a top ranking in degenerative disease. In other words, there are more sick people per capita in the United States than any other country on the face of the earth, even though we're throwing more money at this problem than any other country.
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Are you a pushover?
by Sherrie Campbell, PhD
Are you a pushover? Asserting yourself and loving yourself will not upset people as much as you fear it will, and when it does, they will get over it.

Being nice is a wonderful virtue and it is a quality that sustains relationships, but being too nice means that you are a pushover with no boundaries. In this case, you will get nowhere in life. Most people who are too nice have a fear-based approach to life accompanied by low self-esteem. They have learned to survive by placating those they fear, and they can have a fear for everyone.
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Three strategies for resilience and survival
by Jill Gabrielle Klein
Three strategies for resilience and survival My father speaks about his camp experiences, and particularly about the coping strategies that helped him stay determined to survive.

My father had to cope with an unfathomable situation: at the young age of sixteen, he was a prisoner in Auschwitz. He was deported from Hungary in the spring of 1944, was separated from his family and friends, and spent a year in Nazi concentration camps.
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Techniques to help manage stress
by Kathy Gruver, PhD
Techniques to help manage stress Stress is the perception that demands are going to exceed our resources.

It's no secret that stress is a killer in our society, we see it all around us. In fact, it's estimated that between 60-80 percent of all doctors' visits are for stress-related illness. What is stress? It's the perception that demands are going to exceed our resources. The perception! Usually it's something that we're not even sure is going to happen, and it's something we definitely can't control. That's why stress isn't really the problem. As I said, we can't control stress, only our reactions to it.
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The United States of Depression?
by Gregory L. Jantz
The United States of Depression? Four tips for maintaining balance in difficult times

It's no wonder nearly one in ten Americans suffers from depression.Top risk factors include being unable to work or unemployed; having no health insurance; suffering from obesity, and on and on says a Centers for Disease Control study.
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Are You The Captain Of Your Destiny?
by John Musico
Are You The Captain Of Your Destiny? If in the grand scheme a person is not globally culpable, why kick yourself in the butt when things don’t go as you had planned?

Are we in control of our destiny? No. We have the illusion that we are.

Back when I was working on a degree in marine biology, I had an epiphany, a Zen moment of insight. It was required that we plot a course before heading out to sea. I hated charting. The harbor was horse shoe shaped, crested by two peninsulas at its exit en route to the open sea.

One day, I decided just to head on out to sea, shooting dead midpoint between those two peninsulas, without all the measurements. I stood at the helm, a firm steady grip on the wheel with the wind in my hair.
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Tell-Tale Signs of Adult ADHD
by Kevin Ross Emery
Tell-Tale Signs of Adult ADHD How does one know if he/she has adult ADHD—what are the signs? Can problems with punctuality, organization, and focus be due to adult ADHD; or are these difficulties simply related to stress or other lifestyle issues?

With high profile celebrities like NBC’s ‘The Voice’ judge Adam Levine, TV news broadcasters like Phoenix-based Kaley O’Kelley, and others like “The ADHD CEO” Greg Selkoe now publicly “owning” their ADHD diagnosis, it begs many questions: How does one know if he/she has adult ADHD—what are the signs? Can problems with punctuality, organization, and focus be due to adult ADHD; or are these difficulties simply related to stress or other lifestyle issues? Is adult ADHD sabotaging your career, business, or relationship?
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FAMILY SECRETS The ties that bind – or devastate
by Titia Ellis, PhD
FAMILY SECRETS The ties that bind – or devastate

Never underestimate the power of secrets in a family. One of the most common reasons people justify keeping secrets is the need to “protect” someone. Secrets also originate from fear that actions within the family will be discovered and judged. Some secrets are generations old; others newly created. All have the ability to tear the fabric of the family system apart.
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Suffering the winter blues? SAD may be the reason
by David Sack
Suffering the winter blues? SAD may be the reason Individuals who live further away from the equator and therefore experience less daylight in wintertime are much more likely to suffer from SAD.

Does winter get you down? If so, you may be suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a clinically recognized depressive disorder that usually kicks in during the fall and winter months and abates in the spring and summer months. Most studies suggest that SAD is caused by a biochemical imbalance in the brain prompted by lack of exposure to sunlight—which directly affects levels of melatonin, a sleep and mood related hormone.
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Red wine ingredient may be key to longer life
Red wine ingredient may be key to longer life
The vast majority of these studies elucidate impressive potential health benefits of the red wine molecule

Two new meta studies published in the Journal Nature, one authored by Dr. David Gems, and the second one by Drs. Auwerx and Canto, examine previous studies of red wine’s ability to promote human health and longevity.
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Is your child ready for a sleep away camp?
by Jennifer Kelman, MSW
Is your child ready for a sleep away camp? I don’t believe there is an exact age that is the “right” age; it may be more about the readiness.

As the winter begins to wrap up and we all long for the dog days of summer, some decisions do need to be made. Some of us struggle because we are unsure about the right time to send our child to sleep-away camp. I don’t believe there is an exact age that is the “right” age; it may be more about the readiness our child exhibits that lets us know he/she can handle being away from home.

Here are five indications that your child may be ready for sleep-away camp:
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Stressed? Your Cure may be in the Mirror
by Murray Grossan, MD
Stressed? Your Cure may be in the Mirror What if you could live without the harmful stress chemicals that speed your heart, narrow your blood vessels, and age you prematurely? You can.

Fight or flight reaction
During a stress reaction, you breathe rapidly and tighten your muscles. Solution? Relax your breathing and your muscles to send a “no tiger” signal to your stress center.
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What’s your “type”?
Finding out may help with stress levels

by Charles A. Moss, MD
What’s your “type”?
Each of the Five Types has its own strategies and strengths, as well as vulnerabilities to specific stressors. Power of the Five Elements provides techniques for each of the Adaptation Types to overcome their specific vulnerabilities and utilize their own adaptive ’toolbox.’

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(Ten) tips for Living with a chronic condition
by Michael Finkelstein, MD
(Ten) tips for Living with a chronic condition Chronic health conditions often are symptoms of imbalance and come from losing touch with nature and our personal connection with its cycles. These illnesses – whether they’re physical, emotional, or spiritual in nature – seem to be on the rise in the US, indicating that we are living imbalanced lives as individuals and as a society.

With any chronic illness, people can choose to try to find health or choose to let their illness throw them further off course. Often, if people can take steps to achieve a state of better balance, their health will improve. These tips are offered to help achieve that balance:

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The Fountain of youth... begins with common senese
by Judy Gaman
The Fountain of youth... begins with common senese As medical professionals, we are dedicated to helping people. Sometimes the best way to do that is to get back to basics and give them direction.

Before you reach for those expensive creams, miracle cures, and expensive procedures, start with a little common sense. That’s the advice being given by three highly respected medical experts and authors of the book Stay Young: 10 Proven Steps to Ultimate Health, by Dr. Mark Anderson, Dr. Walter Gaman, and myself.
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Erasing one’s hope can lead to despair
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Erasing one’s hope can lead to despair Of all the animals on earth, man is the only one who commits suicide. Why?

Death takes many forms. Life ends by a terminal medical condition, an accident or mishap, or one’s purposeful self-killing. There are courageous persons who undergo radical surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation to prolong life, whereas others willingly shorten this precious gift.
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The story of Juan
by Anne-Phelan-Adams, MD
The story of Juan Abuse takes a society to overcome

It may take a village to raise a child, but in this increasingly fragmented and complex world, it takes an entire society working in concert to protect them.

Juan was a beautiful newborn with a head of thick, glossy black hair, alert Greek olive eyes, latte colored skin, strong legs and a lusty cry; he was everything a parent could wish for. At seventeen, his mother, Sarina, wasn’t legally an adult, yet another child raising a child, but she took her responsibility to heart. Unmarried, but fortunate to have the support of her own family, she brought her son in for all of his checkups and immunizations on time—diaper bag and bottles, immunization card and grandmother in tow.
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Panic with the economy or maintain well being?"
by Nicholas E. Stratas, MD, DLFAPA
Panic with the economy or maintain well being? The number of prescriptions for antianxiety medications such as alprazolam is up and those for sleep aides such as zolpidem are “definitely up”.

Over the past few months, I have received more calls and heard more patients address concerns about their financial status than in my fifty-one years of medical practice serving the whole range of humanity from indigent to rich. I go few places now where the economy is not discussed or at least mentioned.
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by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Procrastination Putting off until tomorrow…why we procrastinate and tips to stop it

Procrastination is the avoidance of doing something that needs to be done. Although undone, the task is not forgotten, just the opposite. The task remains on our mind and continues to nag us with frequent reminders that “I need to do so and so.” We cannot forget it and actually waste a lot of time recalling it. It would be much simpler to have done the chore; the nagging would be over, and we would have the satisfaction of accomplishing our duty. Yet all of us fall into the trap of procrastination despite the psychic price.
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Smiling, Your Way to Good Health
by Dale L. Anderson, MD
Smiling, Your Way to Good Health Are we happy because we’re healthy, or are we healthy because we’re happy?

Often we speak about the “good chemistry” of a relationship, the “good chemistry” of a place or the “good chemistry” of an event. Many physicians recognize that “good chemistry” means positive feelings and good health, and “bad chemistry” indicates negative feelings and poor health. The growing field of Psychoneuroimmunology (PNI) is discovering that the physiology of feelings and health can be altered by many controllable factors that positively or negatively impact individuals and society. Physicians also recognize those who positively act happy impact their health and well-being.
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Abuse in the family… the causes and the effects
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Abuse in the family… the causes and the effects The family is the fundamental unit of society. Parents guide, protect, and provide for their children; they teach them the values, attitudes, and skills to cope with adulthood. They are the bridge from infancy to maturity. Whenever stress occurs, the family bands together for love and support. Yet instead of this norm, many families are the locus of abuse, violence, neglect, and contempt. Why is this so and what are the consequences of abuse?

Abuse between persons is as old as Cain and Able. In the family, it can occur between the parents, parent(s) and child (ren), siblings or any combination of these. Regardless of its source, abuse of any form (physical, verbal or sexual) has both psychological and physical consequences.
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5 Tools to Cope with Stress
by Aldebra Schroll, MD
5 Tools to Cope with Stress We may feel the need to take a break and slow down. As a physician, I see the effects of stress in my patients on a daily basis. Ringing cell phones, traffic jams, emails and instant messaging, such are the trappings of modern life. It can feel overwhelming at times. We may feel the need to take a break and slow down. As a physician, I see the effects of stress in my patients on a daily basis. Medical studies suggest that 50-80% of illness has stress-related aspects.
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Grief...Emotional & Physical consequences
by William R. Meeker, MD
Grief...Emotional & Physical consequences Since grief is a normal process, most psychiatric medications, such as antidepressants, are not usually recommended or used

What is grief?
Grief is a person’s overall response to a significant loss. Often, this loss is the death or severe physical or mental impairment of an important person in one’s life, such as a parent, spouse, child, significant other, friend, or co-worker. Bereavement, or the death of a person to whom one was closely related, should be distinguished from grief, which is the response to bereavement. Grief can also be called mourning when it involves the death of another person. However, there are many other losses to which a person can respond by grieving.
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Memory... Remembering and forgetting
by Jim Hawley, MD
Memory... Remembering and forgetting All of us can get annoyed when we are trying to remember a name, a phone number, a place, or where we put something. Sometimes we worry about our memory; are we losing it? But some forgetting in people is caused by excessive memories

Too Much Memory
Think of those who undergo an experience so terrible, like war or rape, that they cannot forget about it; it haunts their waking consciousness and their dreams as they relive it, unable to forget it, unable to put it into perspective and put it to rest. These people have a powerful imprint in their emotional circuits, which makes them anxious (and usually depressed) and keeps calling on the rest of the brain to recall the experience and relive it.
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Are you in CONFLICT with yourself?
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Are you in CONFLICT with yourself? Do you sometimes find yourself doing things that you do not want to do, or that you should not do? Perhaps your difficulty is the opposite: not doing what you desire to do or should have done. These four troublesome situations produce internal conflict. Can we resolve this self-friction to achieve inner harmony and unity?

Sigmund Freud described personality as having three components: id, superego, and ego. While these terms have precise psychoanalytic meanings, there are simpler and more familiar terms: feeling, thinking, and doing. Mental distress is the result of conflict when our actions, our emotions, and our beliefs are divided.<
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Relationships Are Inside
by Nicholas E. Stratas, MD, DLFAPA
Relationships Are Inside We have all experienced the phenomenon of being away from a given person for a period and then when we meet, it is as if we have never been apart.

As we live and experience life, events thoughts, and feelings are recorded inside, internalized forever, barring physical damage to our Nervous System. These events, sometimes simple sometimes extremely complex, come together inside and become connected to make one unified and integrated human being leading to autonomy. In some people, these events may continue to seem separate, wall off, go underground, and develop a life of their own.
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Happy Holidays Hic!
by C. Robert Meloni
Happy Holidys Hic! This title is not Latin, but rather English spoken by an inebriated person. He/she does not come from a foreign land, but from wherever he/she has consumed too much alcohol. The laws of the various states are fairly consistent: they consider a blood alcohol level of 0.08-0.1 and above as being too high, because at these levels, a person experiences slowed reflexes, slowed thinking and disequilibrium can be found. Therefore for that person, driving a car becomes illegal. I had an uncle, an aunt, and two cousins, one of whom was pregnant, mowed down and killed while they were fishing off a pier. The car driver was pronounced drunk, found guilty and sentenced to one year in jail. I try not to get too sensitive about it.
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Put Your Best Face Forward
by Robert Eric Dinenberg, MD
Put Your Best Face Forward After a mind/body practice session there is a smile in the eyes, the tension in the face melts away, the cheeks have a rosy glow, and the smile is happy and from the heart.

Whether you wish to put your best face forward for business or pleasure, rest assured that a very simple mind/body practice could provide the radiant rejuvenation you are seeking.

I see this transformation in the faces of my stress reduction and peak performance clients every day. After a mind/body practice session there is a smile in the eyes, the tension in the face melts away, the cheeks have a rosy glow, and the smile is happy and from the heart.

The mind/body practice that leads to this transformation is very simple and so is the reason it works.
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COPING... the Alternative Approach
by Larry Altshuler, MD
COPING... the Alternative Approach There are several alternative approaches that are beneficial in relieving depression. Some, like acupuncture and mind-body methods, can be used with conventional medications and psychotherapy for additional benefit.

Certainly the most common treatments for depression are antidepressants and psychological counseling. These approaches have been beneficial for most people, but for many others, side effects, lack of success, potential harmful effects on other conditions (such as pregnancy), or only temporary results have caused them to search for alternative treatments.

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Always tired? Maybe you are depressed
by Aletha Olgesby, MD
Depression For some time now I have experienced constant fatigue. It seems that no matter now much sleep I get, I still feel tired. My doctor ran tests for anemia and thyroid problems and told me everything is normal. However, I still feel sluggish and lack energy.

What else could be wrong?

Fatigue, one of the most common problems for which people see a physician, has a multitude of causes. Other physical illnesses like diabetes, hepatitis, heart disease, kidney disease, and lung problems need to be considered; however, you may be surprised to learn that one of the most common causes of fatigue is depression.

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‘T is the season to be jolly or is it?
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Tis the season to be jolly or is it? For many, the season produces anguish and distress.How do we to handle this?

The holiday (Christmas) season is a time of hyper emotionality. All feelings are intensified starting with Thanksgiving and lasting through the New Year. A flurry of social get-togethers, family reunions, giving and receiving presents make for emotional intensity. In contrast, summertime is emotionally quiet…relaxing, going to the beach, and taking a vacation fills our minds.
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Getting Along...Is it a brain thing?
by Jim Hawley, MD
Brain, Wellbeing If you are introverted with strengths in intuition, sensing and perception, you might have an artist hidden in you.

One of the more interesting and challenging aspects of life is dealing with people and their many and varied different thoughts and ways of thinking. If we expect others to think the way we think they should, we will often misunderstand them and they will misunderstand us. It is difficult to predict what people are thinking and feeling, or how they will act. Sometimes we can solve this difficulty by speaking directly and clearly expressing our feelings.
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Coping with Anger
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Anger Management Anger is the most destructive and dangerous emotion. We may hurt others when we are angry, not only with our fists but also with our words. Once spoken, hurtful words cannot be retracted. Lasting damage to friendships and marriages can result from hastily uttered words.

Anger is hazardous for your health. Blood pressure and heart rate increase when one is angry and can cause heart attacks and premature death. Hostile behavior causes more heart disease than the usual culprits like smoking, hypercholesterolemia, and obesity. Less severe consequences are muscle tension and pain.
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Depression Warning Signs
by Pamella Thomas, MD, MPH, FAOEM
Everyone feels the blues from time to time. Temporary feelings of sadness, frustration, irritability, stress and fatigue are the normal difficulties of daily life, even more so when considering the recent increased threat of terrorism since 9/11 and the war in Iraq. However, if those feelings last most of the day, nearly every day for more than two weeks, they can interfere with a person's usual enjoyment of life's pleasures. Periods like this could signal depression and should be evaluated by your physician...
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Dealing with Guilt
by Raymond G. Mercier, M.D., P.C
Why demand that our ideal self approximate perfection? Many adults have grandiose opinions of themselves, leading to inflated egos that need to be reduced to realistic proportions-which is how the term "shrink" came to describe a psychiatrist. With such an elevated ideal self, we imagine that we have more power and control than we actually do. This is ...
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